My thoughts are killing me …

Of course your thoughts are killing you; nothing else can really hurt you.  Indeed, no one can hurt me- that’s my job!

An important part of the past life healing process is proper discussion and analysis / dissection of the issue that the person undergoing the therapy wants to address. It is necessary to get to the root cause of the issue or negative thinking pattern for the healing to work.  The cause of suffering is the way we treat our thoughts.

Life is an opportunity for realisation of this truth.  So, do not believe your thoughts.  Instead observe them and recognise that they do not belong to you, so you need not get attached. Thoughts are like clouds in the sky- they do not belong to you and they come and they go all by themselves – would you argue with a cloud?  No.  Thoughts are also like clouds as they hide reality; they hide the beautiful blue sky above if you look only at the clouds.

I caused a lot of suffering for myself following the loss of my wife.  I believed thoughts like “I wish I died” and “she was my world; my happiness depended upon her being alive”.  In believing these thoughts in the wake of my wife’s death, a part of me (or most of me!) died and I ensured any prospect of future happiness was excluded from my life.  I overcame this prolonged period of depression and PTSD when I realised that these thougths did not belong to me.  I was not the first person to lose a special someone and I would not be the last.   Further, for me to happy, no one has to live for me.  It’s my life, I live for me.  The reality is that I lost my wife.  I needed to accept the reality and ignore my thoughts of past and future; my imagination.  In any event my wife may have been reborn by now.  She may yet appear again in my lifetime as a child of mine in years to come or in some other form.  Past life healing therapy teaches me that much.

To free yourself of suffering and go deeper into meditation, you need to free yourself of thoughts.  That is not to say that must not have thoughts!  It is to say that you must not believe your thoughts without questioning them.  If you understand and recognise that thoughts do not belong to you then the thought will let go of you.

We all live in our own little imaginary worlds.  This is why it is a mistake to judge others by your own standards – how can you ever know what someone else is thinking?  This is the cause of our suffering.  We need to accept reality, to accept what is.  This is how to be here and now.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

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Depression and past life healing

If you suffer from depression, it can have a seemingly obvious present life cause like a response to a severe trauma. However, there also may be a lingering feeling of unworthiness or hopelessness from preceding existences. In addition, there are instances where the root cause of the depression cannot be traced to any current life event.

Major events in a persons present and past lives are stored in the soul. The trapped memories and emotions can cause a number of issues such as unreasoned thoughts, and fears. Memories and emotions need to be confronted and released in this life, and any unhealthy issues from previous existences need to be resurrected and cleared as well.

Whether or not you believe in karma, there is a clear link between memories and emotions from past-life experiences, present-life upbringing, and ongoing unresolved troubles and issues.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Karma and past life healing therapy

The generally understood (Western) notion of karma is too simplistic: ‘do good deeds, and the universe will reward you in turn’ and if something bad happens to you it is because you did something bad in the past / a past life.

I have heard that Buddha said something like: “Intention, is karma. Intending, one does karma by way of body, speech, and intellect.” Thus the kind of intentions we consciously or subconsciously apply in our ordinary daily life are those that manifest. If your intention, motivation, words and actions are compassionate and loving, that is if you act with awareness and mindfulness, then you will drop your suffering. If, on the other hand, you are motivated by hatred or greed or your intention is otherwise less than loving, then you will invite suffering into your life. As my Guru says: ‘the universe does not happen to you; it happens for you’.

Any trauma experienced in a past life can leave a lasting negative impression. This negative imprint can then present itself as present day symptoms like blockages, phobias, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, feelings of unworthiness, anger, etc. Thus traumatic events can cause the mind and body to go into shock. As a result, the energy triggered by a traumatic ‘flight or fight’ event does not dissipate. The mind and body cannot then integrate the memory of the trauma properly which leaves a negative imprint on the soul.

Over the course of countless lifetimes, the soul attempts to heal itself by recreating the traumatic circumstances experienced in its past. This is because our problems are our greatest teachers in life and present opportunities for healing now and here.   However, if the opportunity is missed and the lesson not learned then the suffering will continue in this lifetime and the next. This has been described as the wheel of karma.

Thus your past lives may be active in your own energy field right now. You may feel their emotions; you may dream their memories, you may find yourself limited by their fears.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please email him on damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/

What types of issues can past life healing therapy address?

Nearly all of our current life problems / suffering have an emotional cause which can be addressed with therapy.

I have helped clients heal physical issues like chronic back pain, joint pain, yoga injuries, etc.

I have also helped people with addiction issues, and with emotional and mental issues such as, anxiety, depression, eating disorders, career concerns, self-confidence issues, relationship/sexual dysfunction.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).