My thoughts are killing me …

Of course your thoughts are killing you; nothing else can really hurt you.  Indeed, no one can hurt me- that’s my job!

An important part of the past life healing process is proper discussion and analysis / dissection of the issue that the person undergoing the therapy wants to address. It is necessary to get to the root cause of the issue or negative thinking pattern for the healing to work.  The cause of suffering is the way we treat our thoughts.

Life is an opportunity for realisation of this truth.  So, do not believe your thoughts.  Instead observe them and recognise that they do not belong to you, so you need not get attached. Thoughts are like clouds in the sky- they do not belong to you and they come and they go all by themselves – would you argue with a cloud?  No.  Thoughts are also like clouds as they hide reality; they hide the beautiful blue sky above if you look only at the clouds.

I caused a lot of suffering for myself following the loss of my wife.  I believed thoughts like “I wish I died” and “she was my world; my happiness depended upon her being alive”.  In believing these thoughts in the wake of my wife’s death, a part of me (or most of me!) died and I ensured any prospect of future happiness was excluded from my life.  I overcame this prolonged period of depression and PTSD when I realised that these thougths did not belong to me.  I was not the first person to lose a special someone and I would not be the last.   Further, for me to happy, no one has to live for me.  It’s my life, I live for me.  The reality is that I lost my wife.  I needed to accept the reality and ignore my thoughts of past and future; my imagination.  In any event my wife may have been reborn by now.  She may yet appear again in my lifetime as a child of mine in years to come or in some other form.  Past life healing therapy teaches me that much.

To free yourself of suffering and go deeper into meditation, you need to free yourself of thoughts.  That is not to say that must not have thoughts!  It is to say that you must not believe your thoughts without questioning them.  If you understand and recognise that thoughts do not belong to you then the thought will let go of you.

We all live in our own little imaginary worlds.  This is why it is a mistake to judge others by your own standards – how can you ever know what someone else is thinking?  This is the cause of our suffering.  We need to accept reality, to accept what is.  This is how to be here and now.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Save yourself

I rescued a bee today.  It had flown into the house.  I watched it first, buzzing around against the window in a futile effort to fly through the glass.  It was putting maximum effort in.  It sounded like an angry bee.  It was making such a noise flapping those little wings in vain.  It occurred to me that we are all like this little bee – banging our heads against an invisible wall in a futile effort to overcome our suffering.

Nobody knows whether what you are seeing is there or not. These words you are reading may not be there or they may be there but in a totally different way.  The colours you see, the shapes, the forms- everything is projected by the eyes.  And then, your interpretation, your understanding, of these words will be different to others because your interpretation is tainted by you/ your life’s experiences.  You see things according to your own conditioning.  In this way, most suffering comes down to the opinion you have about yourself.

Past Life Healing Therapy can help you drop your issues and rise above your conditioning.  As Osho once said: 

“It’s not a question of learning much. On the contrary. It’s a question of UNLEARNING much.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Has there ever been a moment in life when you didn’t want more than you already had?

Really, has there ever been a moment in your life when you didn’t want more than you already had?  I suspect not.  We all appear to be of limitless desire.  But what happens when you cave into desire?  You desire ten more things!  This is why most rich people are in fact unhappy.  And this is just one of the ways in which we cause our own suffering.  Think about it.

Everything of value that had happened in your life you didn’t see it coming anyway! You never expect the greatest things in life that happen; good things simply unfold.  If you understand this- if you accept it and embrace it and let go of your desires- you will see that the universe is unfolding as it should.  And your issues can melt away as you are bigger than that; your true Self is beyond all that.

Desires lead to expectation and expectation leads to disappointment.  You can read a great review about a movie and then go to the see it at the cinema, only to leave feeling disappointed.  By contrast, how many times have you found yourself glued to the telly at home enjoying some rubbish movie no one has ever heard of?

But how to drop desires which lead to expectations and cause suffering?  You cannot simply flick a switch and turn off your thought process.  And there is no point fighting your thoughts – you won’t win!  The only way is meditation.  Close your eyes and watch your thoughts.  See how they come and go without you doing anything.  See how they do not even belong you to you.  Then notice that the thoughts are not continuous – look out for the gaps – that bit of silence.  Be of no mind.

The more you let go of your issues the deeper you go into meditation and the greater the healing. Past Life Healing Therapy gets to the root cause of your issues.  Life’s problems – illnesses, disease, suffering, anxiety, etc – are all just physical manifestations of deep emotional wound.  And it is no use just addressing symptoms.  It’s just like wanting to get rid of a tree but cutting the tree and pruning the leaves instead of uprooting it.  This is pointless.  New branches and leaves will grow back thicker and stronger.  Unless you uproot the tree you will make it stronger and destroy yourself instead of the tree.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Dreams and self-realization

Dreams can give you indication; they contain a message from your unconscious mind.  Whatever you have missed during the daytime will appear in your dreams.  Anything you suppress, any unfinished business, will appear at night.  Whatever you suppress will be ever-present.  Try to uncover what you have suppressed.  Suppression is like a disease: when you accept, you grow and when you let go, you (self) heal.  Otherwise the disease can spread like cancer inside you; in your existence.

If, in the moment, you avoid doing something or saying something – if you suppress it – you will dream of it.  If instead, in the moment, you become aware of the rising passion or fear (or whatsoever emotion is triggered) then you will not suppress it; you will not dream of it.  Every moment in life is unique so capture it.  It’s your development.  And there is no limit to self-realization.  The soul knows no bounds; it is ever-increasing.

As Osho says, the only way to save the world is one individual at a time.  If you save yourself, you can then (and only then) begin to save others.  As the old Zen saying goes: If every individual strived to make their own life peaceful then we would achieve world peace. The doorway to that self- realization, that change, is meditation.  Past Life Healing Therapy can help you let go of your issues and go deeper into meditation.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Why do we cause our own suffering?

Why do we turn against ourselves? We feel isolated, hard done by, alone, sad, and unworthy.  And sometimes we feel unhappy and angry.

But we all cover it up!  If asked: “how are you”; we always say that we are “okay”. We wear a mask.  We put a front.  We fool ourselves and the opinions of others that we live in.  We are expert con artists and actors.

We enjoy our suffering. Deep down, we feel we deserve it.  It attracts sympathy from others; our family and our friends.  In this way, our suffering validates our imagination; our fears.

The mind – our imagination – the assumptions we treat as real, is the problem.  We need to transcend the mind to heal.  Awareness is only possible when the mind is absent.  Every experience will transform us, if we go into it with awareness.  With this in mind, Past Life Healing Therapy allows us to experience past lives and go the root cause of any suffering.

Past Life Healing Therapy is also a means of self-discovery.  In knowing yourself not only can the cause of suffering become evident but we can better express a loving attitude toward each other-self we meet in life.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Raising your awareness

Awareness or mindfulness (vipashyana or shamata in Sanskrit) can bring inner peace; it is putting meditation into practice in your day-to-day life. In fact, doing anything without expecting any result is meditation.  But to increase awareness, practice being mindful of all the things that you use to torture yourself with – become mindful by abandoning your expectations about the way you think things should be and what others may think of you.   Out of our mindfulness, begin to develop awareness about the way things really are. You may realise that the universe is unfolding as it should.

An ancient model of healing that uses awareness can be found in the Yoga Sutra of Patanjali (which was echoed by Buddha in his first sermon Four Noble Truth’s).  In short, the model is an outline of the stages in the healing process, presented as four questions:

  1. What is the nature of the pain that all humans experience?
  2. What is the cause of that pain?
  3. What will be experienced when the pain is removed?
  4. How can the pain be removed?

These questions are designed to bring awareness to the true nature of the issue so that it can be dropped and the healing can occur.

Osho’s Past Life Healing Therapy tells us that human beings are generally programmed to achieve a higher state of consciousness.  Each one-to-one Past Life Healing session will help raise your consciousness and raise body-bound memories to awareness.  You can experience remembered events from your personal akashic record; memories from your individual path of evolution through eons of lives.  In this way, current life issues can be seen for what they are and, ultimately, dropped completely.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Know yourself

You did not come here to achieve perfection, you came here to know yourself and life is perfect imperfection anyway. But how do you get to know yourself? As Osho once said: “Your whole idea about yourself is borrowed-borrowed from those who have no idea of who they are themselves.”

Knowing yourself is true wisdom. Past Life Healing Therapy can expand consciousness and awareness and clarity to the level where deep meditation and self-discovery are possible. Relive past lives and discover your true centre; your true self is waiting…

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

The time to heal yourself is NOW

“At any moment you have a choice that leads you closer to your spirit, or, further away from it.” – Thich Nhat Hanh.

We’re all in this crazy journey together. Stuck in the same illusion. And whether we like it or not, we are all endowed with a similar self-healing purpose.

In Past Life Healing Therapy, you will be guided to a past-life that is most relevant to your current issue(s). By re-living the old life, and releasing all the negative emotions and memories, you then go through your own transformation process. Then, unencumbered by the past, you see your current life in a spiritual / multi-dimensional context and bring awareness to the cause of your current issues.

In this way, Past Life Healing Therapy can help you transform difficulties in relationships, increase personal confidence, resolve abandonment and separation issues and help heal physical or emotional wounds.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

Your soul’s mission

When nothing seems to go your way, remember that you’re almost exactly where you want to be. When your undying trust in the universe alone won’t carry you across the line and past the fear and into the bliss you yearn for, there is always Past Life Healing Therapy.

Your soul chose to incarnate at this time and for you to experience your current life so as to heal unfinished business from past lives. This unfinished business is intimately linked to your life purpose. You pick up where you left off in your previous life and the universe sets up another opportunity for you to move past your limitations and succeed in fulfilling your soul’s mission.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).

If you don’t like the way that you feel: change the way you see things.

“All that you are attached to, all that you love,

all that you know, someday will be gone.

 

Knowing this, and that the world is your mind

which you create, play in, and suffer from,

is known as discrimination.

 

Discriminate between the Real and the Unreal,

the known is unreal and will come and go.

So stay with the Unknown, the Unchanging, the Truth.

-Sri Sat Guru Harilal Poonjaji

Experiencing your soul’s journey into a past life puts your current life into context. After a certain level of self-realisation has been attainted and you can see beyond your personal bubble and you bring awareness to how the seemingly mundane daily choices you make / pattern of behaviour you follow is actually limiting your own potential. With such awareness issues and negative patterns of behaviour can be dropped.

So be yourself, ignore expectations and inspire others because everything is possible.

If you wish to undergo a past life healing session with Damian Cadman-Jones, please contact him on 0777-900-1896 or email: damiancadmanjones@gmail.com or find him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pastlifehealing.net/ or at Guthlaxton House, Back Street, North Kilworth, Leicestershire (mobile appointments also possible).